Friends: Guys and Girls

I hate to admit it, but sometimes i really can't stand talking to guy friends. (No offense)

Guy friends

They are nice people who would help you, and always be there for you.
Hpwever, it's quite irritating when you get closer to them and they start disrespecting you.
They tend to talk bluntly, and tend to say things which makes you feel offended.
I just don't understand how some people can just speak without thinking how their words might affect others.
They may say things like "Why you behave like a dog?", "You are so fucking stupid.", "You wear like that look like gay.", "Your hair sucks.", "Shut the fuck up lah!", "Don't act lah!" etc etc
I feel that all these are just plain childish and immature.
I prefer being with people who would appreciate you for who you are, and not give any unnecessary bullshit comments.
I don't get close to people who talks without thinking twice, and those who doesn't even know what is basic respect. Sadly, this year I've met many of such bullshit people.
I think they really have little or no EQ at all, although they have quite a good IQ.
Sad to say, in my polytechnic life, I've met many wonderful and helpful friends, but i guess such friendships wouldn't last long, especially after we've all graduated.
It's not their fault, just that they are not my type of friends that i feel comfortable hanging out with. May we cherish these moments until we've graduated.
Secondary school friends are much thoughtful and considerate. At least they show respect to each other, and we are able to get along well.
Furthermore, i don't like hanging out in a big group of friends.

Girl friends

I think girl friends are generally much thoughtful and sweeter.

They say things nicely and don't give unnecessary bullshit comments.

At least they sugarcoat their words before speaking them out.

Even if they have something bad to comment about me, they would say it in a less offensive manner. Furthermore, they would say things indirectly, or not even saying it at all. 

To me, if I never hear what they say, no matter how much they talk behind my back, I don't know and I would naturally not care at all. Then my mood wouldn't be affected.

And they tend to have more heart-to-heart talks than those childish offensive topics.

Furthermore, talking to them won't give me the "gay" feeling, unlike when talking to guy friends. Hence, it feels better to open up more.

I don't know what the fuck is my problem. Maybe just the opposite attracts. 

I'm those type who would get closer to those who are respectful, and would drift away from those who are not. Hope those with negative bullshit comments about me, keep them to themselves.